We have all heard (and perhaps have said) "the most important thing is health." But it's not until you or a loved one face health challenges that those words taken on full meaning. In an instant, grievances that may have existed instantly vanish. The thought of losing or the suffering of a loved one brings clarity that previously eluded us. It is a gift we're given and the good that come out of a sad and frightening situation. I hope I don't squander it.